Breastfeeding is widely recognised as a wonderful way to nourish your baby, providing unique health benefits and fostering a special bond. It’s a natural process, yes, but that doesn’t always mean it comes easily! For many new mothers, especially first-timers, breastfeeding is a learned skill for both mum and baby. It’s common to encounter bumps along the road, and facing challenges certainly doesn’t mean you’re failing.
My name is Dr. Vrushali Pillai, and as a Senior Consultant Obstetrician & Gynaecologist at Borneo Hospital, Thane – part of the Borneo group serving families across Thane, Nashik, Chhatrapati Sambhaji Nagar, and Raipur – guiding expectant mothers towards optimal health is central to my practice. . We understand that difficulties can arise, and we believe that with the right information, support, and timely help, most challenges can be overcome.
This article aims to discuss some common Breastfeeding Challenges and Solutions, offering practical tips you can try and guidance on when to seek expert help. Please know that experiencing difficulties is normal, and reaching out for support is a positive step towards achieving your breastfeeding goals.
Why Breastfeeding is Recommended (A Brief Reminder)
Before diving into challenges, let’s quickly recap why breastfeeding is so highly recommended by health organisations worldwide:
- For Your Baby: Breast milk provides the perfect blend of nutrients tailored for your baby’s growth, antibodies that boost their immune system protecting them from infections (like diarrhoea and chest infections), and may offer long-term health benefits. It’s also easily digested.
- For You, Mum: Breastfeeding helps your uterus contract back to its pre-pregnancy size more quickly, promotes bonding through close physical contact, and may reduce your own risk of certain health conditions later in life. Plus, it’s convenient and free!
Understanding these benefits often provides motivation to work through initial hurdles with the right support.

Common Breastfeeding Challenges & Practical Solutions
Here are some of the hurdles new breastfeeding mothers frequently encounter, along with practical tips and guidance on when to seek professional help from our team at Borneo Hospital or a qualified lactation consultant.
1. Sore Nipples / Nipple Pain
- The Problem: Ouch! Pain during or after feeds, sometimes leading to cracked, blistered, or bleeding nipples. This is very common in the early days but shouldn’t persist long-term.
- Common Causes: The most frequent culprit is an incorrect or shallow latch – baby isn’t taking enough breast tissue into their mouth, essentially ‘chewing’ on the nipple itself. Other causes include incorrect positioning, tongue-tie in the baby, or sometimes infections like thrush.
- Practical Solutions:
- Focus on the Latch: This is key! Aim for an ‘asymmetric latch’: baby’s mouth wide open (‘like a yawn’), tummy-to-tummy with you, chin touching the breast, lower lip curled outwards, taking in more of the areola (darker area) below the nipple than above. Nipple should point towards the roof of baby’s mouth.
- Positioning: Try different positions (cross-cradle, clutch/rugby hold often give good control). Ensure baby is brought to the breast, not breast to the baby. Use pillows for support.
- Nipple Care: Apply a small amount of expressed breast milk or purified lanolin cream (safe for baby) after feeds. Allow nipples to air dry whenever possible. Ensure gentle detaching (slide a clean finger into the corner of baby’s mouth to break suction).
- Seek Help If: Pain is severe or excruciating, doesn’t improve significantly within a day or two of correcting the latch, nipples are badly cracked/bleeding, or you suspect an infection (see Thrush). Our lactation consultants at Borneo can provide expert assessment and help.
2. Difficulty Latching On
- The Problem: Baby fusses at the breast, won’t open wide, takes only the nipple, slips off frequently, or refuses to latch altogether.
- Common Causes: Poor positioning, baby being too sleepy (especially early on) or too frantic/crying, flat or inverted nipples making it harder for baby to grasp, breast engorgement making the breast too firm, baby having a tongue-tie restricting movement, or being premature.
- Practical Solutions:
- Skin-to-Skin: Lots of skin-to-skin contact encourages baby’s natural feeding reflexes.
- Positioning: Ensure baby is well-supported, tummy-to-tummy, nose opposite your nipple before latching. Try different holds.
- Breast Shaping: Gently shape your breast (C-hold or U-hold) to make it easier for baby to grasp.
- Express Milk: Hand express or pump a little milk first to entice baby with the smell/taste or to soften an engorged areola.
- Calm Approach: Try to latch when baby shows early hunger cues (rooting, sucking fists) rather than waiting until they are crying desperately. Stay calm yourself.
- Nipple Shields (Temporary): These thin silicone shields might help temporarily with flat/inverted nipples or latch issues, but must be used under the guidance of a lactation consultant to ensure correct fit and monitor baby’s milk intake.
- Seek Help If: Latching remains a persistent struggle, feeding is consistently stressful for you or baby, or you have concerns about baby getting enough milk (check nappy output/weight gain). Borneo’s lactation team are skilled in troubleshooting latch problems.
3. Concerns About Low Milk Supply
- The Problem: Many mothers worry they aren’t producing enough milk. Often, this is a perception issue rather than true low supply.
- Common Causes: Perceived low supply is often due to normal changes (breasts feeling softer after initial weeks, baby feeding more quickly/efficiently). Actual low supply is usually caused by infrequent or ineffective milk removal – baby not latching well, not feeding often enough (‘on demand’), strict scheduling, or giving unnecessary formula supplements (which tells your body to make less milk). Less commonly, stress, fatigue, poor maternal nutrition/hydration, certain medications, retained placental fragments, or underlying hormonal/medical issues can contribute.
- Practical Solutions:
- Feed Effectively & Often: Breastfeeding works on supply and demand. The more effectively milk is removed, the more your body makes. Feed your baby whenever they show hunger cues, aiming for at least 8-12 feeds in 24 hours in the early weeks.
- Check the Latch: Ensure baby has a deep latch and you can hear/see swallowing. A lactation consultant can assess milk transfer.
- Offer Both Sides: Offer the second breast after baby finishes the first, even if they only take a little.
- Skin-to-Skin: Maximise skin-to-skin contact.
- Look After Yourself: Stay well-hydrated, eat regular nutritious meals, and rest as much as possible.
- Breast Compression: Gently squeezing the breast during feeds can help milk flow and encourage baby to keep drinking actively.
- Avoid Unnecessary Top-Ups: Only supplement with formula if medically advised by your paediatrician and ideally use expressed breast milk first.
- Trust the Indicators: Focus on reliable signs of adequate intake: baby gaining weight appropriately (checked by paediatrician), having enough wet (6+) and dirty nappies daily (after day 4-5), seeming generally content after feeds.
- Seek Help If: Baby is not gaining weight well or not producing enough wet/dirty nappies despite frequent feeding attempts. Discuss concerns with your paediatrician or lactation consultant at Borneo Hospital for proper assessment.
4. Engorgement
- The Problem: Breasts become very full, hard, swollen, warm, and painful. This typically happens when your mature milk ‘comes in’, usually around day 3-5 postpartum.
- Common Causes: Normal physiological increase in milk volume; sometimes exacerbated if feeding is delayed or ineffective.
- Practical Solutions: The key is frequent milk removal!
- Feed baby very often on demand (at least every 2-3 hours).
- If breasts are too firm to latch, hand express or pump just enough milk to soften the areola before feeding.
- Use warm compresses or take a warm shower just before feeding to help milk flow.
- Gently massage breasts towards the nipple during feeds.
- Apply cold compresses (chilled cabbage leaves in bra or cold gel packs) between feeds for short periods to reduce swelling and discomfort.
- Wear a well-fitting, supportive bra (but ensure it’s not too tight).
- Take doctor-approved pain relief (like paracetamol or ibuprofen) if needed.
- Seek Help If: Engorgement is severe and doesn’t improve with these measures within 24-48 hours, you develop a fever, or baby is unable to latch effectively.
5. Blocked Ducts & Mastitis
- The Problem: A blocked duct presents as a localised tender, firm lump in the breast. Mastitis is inflammation, often with infection, causing a red, hot, painful, usually wedge-shaped area on the breast, typically accompanied by fever, chills, and flu-like symptoms (body aches, fatigue).
- Common Causes: Blocked ducts are usually due to incomplete drainage (e.g., tight bra restricting flow, missed feed, ineffective latch). Mastitis can follow a blocked duct or occur if bacteria enter the breast (often via cracked nipples) and multiply in stagnant milk.
- Practical Solutions (Blocked Duct): Focus on draining the area. Continue breastfeeding frequently, starting on the affected side. Point baby’s chin towards the lump during feeding if possible. Gently massage the lump towards the nipple before and during feeds. Apply warmth before feeds. Vary feeding positions. Rest.
- Practical Solutions (Mastitis): Requires prompt medical attention, usually including antibiotics. Crucially, you MUST continue to breastfeed or pump frequently from the affected breast – draining the breast is vital for recovery and the milk is safe for your baby. Prioritise rest, drink plenty of fluids, use warm compresses before feeds, take prescribed antibiotics and pain relief.
- Seek Help: Immediately for suspected mastitis (fever + red, painful breast). Seek advice for a blocked duct that doesn’t clear within 24-48 hours with home measures. Our doctors at Borneo Hospital can provide diagnosis and treatment.
6. Tongue-Tie (Ankyloglossia)
- The Problem: Baby has a short or tight piece of tissue (frenulum) under their tongue, restricting its movement. This can interfere with their ability to latch deeply, remove milk effectively, and may cause significant nipple pain for the mother.
- Common Causes: A congenital condition (present from birth).
- Practical Solutions: Needs assessment by a trained professional (like paediatricians or lactation consultants at Borneo Hospital) who can evaluate tongue function. If the tongue-tie is significantly impacting breastfeeding, a simple procedure called a frenotomy (snipping the tight tissue) might be recommended.
- Seek Help If: You experience persistent, severe nipple pain/damage, baby has a shallow latch, makes clicking sounds during feeding, seems frustrated at the breast, or has poor weight gain despite frequent feeds.
7. Thrush (Candida Infection)
- The Problem: A common fungal (yeast) infection that can affect mum’s nipples and/or baby’s mouth.
- Common Causes: Overgrowth of Candida yeast, sometimes following antibiotic use. Can pass back and forth between mother and baby.
- Symptoms: Mum: Often sudden onset of severe nipple pain (burning, itching, deep shooting pains, sometimes lasting after feeds), nipples may appear pink, shiny, flaky, or have white patches. Baby: White patches inside the mouth (cheeks, tongue, gums) that look like milk curds but don’t wipe off easily, sometimes accompanied by a specific type of nappy rash.
- Practical Solutions: Requires medical treatment for both mother and baby simultaneously, even if only one shows obvious symptoms, to prevent re-infection. Usually involves anti-fungal cream/ointment for mum’s nipples and anti-fungal drops/gel for baby’s mouth, prescribed by your doctor. Meticulous hygiene (hand washing, boiling/sterilising anything baby puts in mouth like dummies or pump parts) is essential.
- Seek Help If: You or your baby have symptoms suggestive of thrush.
The Importance of Support Systems
Successfully navigating Breastfeeding Challenges and Solutions often relies heavily on having good support.
- Lactation Consultants (IBCLCs): These are certified professionals with specialised training in breastfeeding management. They can provide expert assessment, identify underlying issues, and offer personalised strategies. Accessing support from lactation consultants at Borneo Hospital early on can make a huge difference.
- Your Paediatrician: Our role includes monitoring your baby’s growth and health, ensuring they are thriving, ruling out medical issues, and providing overall feeding guidance.
- Partner & Family Support: This is invaluable! Practical help (bringing you water, snacks, pillows; helping with burping or nappy changes; doing household chores) allows you to focus on feeding and resting. Emotional encouragement (“You’re doing great!”) is just as important. Gently educating family members about breastfeeding realities can help filter unhelpful advice.
- Peer Support: Connecting with other breastfeeding mothers through support groups (like Breastfeeding Support for Indian Mothers – BPNI, La Leche League, or local hospital groups) provides camaraderie, shared experiences, and practical tips.

Mindset and Self-Care for Breastfeeding Mothers
Your well-being impacts your breastfeeding journey.
- Patience & Persistence: Remember, it’s a learned skill. Give yourself and your baby time and grace. Most initial challenges improve with support and practice.
- Realistic Expectations: It might not always feel easy or ‘natural’ at first. That’s okay. Focus on small successes.
- Prioritise Rest & Nutrition: Try to rest when your baby rests. Accept help. Eat regular, nutritious meals and snacks, and drink plenty of fluids. Being well-rested and nourished supports milk supply and your ability to cope.
- Trust Your Body & Baby: Learn your baby’s hunger and fullness cues. Trust your body’s amazing ability to produce milk (when effectively stimulated). Avoid comparing yourself to others.
- Seek Help EARLY! This is perhaps the most important tip. Don’t struggle alone or wait until you’re feeling desperate. Reaching out for professional help at the first sign of difficulty is a sign of strength and commitment to your breastfeeding goals. It is not failure.
Breastfeeding offers wonderful benefits, but it’s very common to encounter challenges along the way. Understanding common Breastfeeding Challenges and Solutions, knowing practical tips to try, and crucially, accessing timely, skilled support can help you overcome hurdles and achieve your feeding goals.
Whether it’s getting help with latch from a lactation consultant, managing engorgement, addressing concerns about milk supply, or treating mastitis promptly, solutions are available. Be patient with yourself, prioritise self-care, build your support network, and never hesitate to reach out to the expert paediatricians and lactation support team at Borneo Hospital. We are here to support you on this rewarding journey.